I doubt this will make any sense at all but here I go.
I’m trying to explain marriage and one of my many views on it. I’m writing it down so it’s blogged and so that maybe written down I can understand it myself.
I think of marriage as broken up into the letters of the alphabet and to graduate to the next letter say from A to B there are three years per letter. So letter A would be as follows-
A- 1/3 first year, 2/3 second year, 3/3 third year
Does that make sense? That gives you 78 years of marriage and that’s rare so I think that’s enough years. I could actually potentially be married for 78 years but I’m a rare freak of nature.
Okay, so I have been married for 17 years and 11 months (I know it’s crazy but true). I am letter F and 2/3rds. (BAT GIRL- I know your laughing right now and I’m going to ignore it and we can laugh about it Monday!)
Okay so I say all that because today my head feels crazy. I’m tired and have a headache for no good reason I am REALLY grouchy. I have been rude and really kind of mean to my nice husband all day and when I was ranting and raving about the air conditioner and other stupid things that are not worth making a big deal over I said to him thank God we are this far into our marriage or you might run screaming from me right now!
Here’s my logic when I think about others getting divorced it makes me sad because of the letters. Follow me here- because I am at F 2/3 in my marriage I yelled about the air conditioner and made a big deal about other such nameless unimportant things he could just hug me and let it go. If I continually start over in marriage and repeat A, B, C a third here and there…. But I never graduate past a certain letter I would never grow and see what the next letter brings…. Do you follow? I never knew what the years of the letter F would bring until I am here and I like the “F” years ….
Thanks Mr. B for loving me when I’m truly out of my mind, off my rocker, three wrenches short of a set, one prong short of a plug end… you get the picture. I love you!
*note to self- stay quieter about lots of things!
I’m trying to explain marriage and one of my many views on it. I’m writing it down so it’s blogged and so that maybe written down I can understand it myself.
I think of marriage as broken up into the letters of the alphabet and to graduate to the next letter say from A to B there are three years per letter. So letter A would be as follows-
A- 1/3 first year, 2/3 second year, 3/3 third year
Does that make sense? That gives you 78 years of marriage and that’s rare so I think that’s enough years. I could actually potentially be married for 78 years but I’m a rare freak of nature.
Okay, so I have been married for 17 years and 11 months (I know it’s crazy but true). I am letter F and 2/3rds. (BAT GIRL- I know your laughing right now and I’m going to ignore it and we can laugh about it Monday!)
Okay so I say all that because today my head feels crazy. I’m tired and have a headache for no good reason I am REALLY grouchy. I have been rude and really kind of mean to my nice husband all day and when I was ranting and raving about the air conditioner and other stupid things that are not worth making a big deal over I said to him thank God we are this far into our marriage or you might run screaming from me right now!
Here’s my logic when I think about others getting divorced it makes me sad because of the letters. Follow me here- because I am at F 2/3 in my marriage I yelled about the air conditioner and made a big deal about other such nameless unimportant things he could just hug me and let it go. If I continually start over in marriage and repeat A, B, C a third here and there…. But I never graduate past a certain letter I would never grow and see what the next letter brings…. Do you follow? I never knew what the years of the letter F would bring until I am here and I like the “F” years ….
Thanks Mr. B for loving me when I’m truly out of my mind, off my rocker, three wrenches short of a set, one prong short of a plug end… you get the picture. I love you!
*note to self- stay quieter about lots of things!
-the above picture if Mr. B. and I in our A year- I'm not sure I want to divulge the 3rd-LOL
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